Sometimes it’s the simple moments.
Long talks in the evening and a glass of whiskey. In this moment, sexiness is more than seduction, it’s time spent listening, being close, and sharing the fun and mundane parts of life. Glad we get to do it together.
We have been working on redefining who we are. Part of it is changing the context of what it means to have sex. As we have recognized, not every moment needs to lead to sex, and some moments can lead to sex, but all those moments can still be sex. We have been programmed that sex is a penis thrusting into a vulva, and it is simply so much more than that.
These moments are really starting to change who we are and how we think. The future of AndreLynn is based on our willingness to change and progress in our hearts towards each other and towards ourselves. Our goals are simple. Live a better, happier, healthy life in whatever form that is, and then try to let that flow into others lives. We wish we had this openness and understanding when we were younger, but it’s never too late start.
We are committing one day a week to sitting together, talking, enjoying each other without expectations for escalation of the moment for sex. This time may turn into that, but we want to create a safe space for us to grow individually and as long term partners.
