We are #SEXPOSITIVE and nudists and we like to share our story. We post both non-sexual nudist things and sexpositive things, sometimes with clothes on.
A little context to our story and our content- Lynn and I are in love with each other, and we are in a very deep long-term relationship. The internet is filled with highly sexual content, and we feel that a lot of the sexual content can be exploitative and shallow. And some of that exploitation can even happen on nudist social media. Even though nudism can be very anti-sexual, we believe in proper context, sexuality can be explored safely, even in the nudist lifestyle without tainting the Nude is Natural mindset. Why? Because sex is also natural.
We believe that sex needs to be properly balanced and not shunned in the nudist community. It has a respectful place in the middle. We believe that sexuality shouldn’t be everywhere and always open in all situations, but we also believe that there is a lack of the conversation in our nudist community. The far end of the spectrum in the nudist community is the swinger lifestyle and the far opposite is the “prude nude”. So we are offering context to all of our sexually-based pictures on our website, twitter accounts and all of social media. These are our “Before and After Stories” for Andre and Lynn. We are sexpositive.
Our BEFORE selves would have shunned sexuality of all kinds being on any kind of public display.
We came into the nudist community in a time of transition for our ideologies and what we found was a lot of our old religious community zealousness for ideas to be just as strong in our new nudist community. We also found a very secretive swinger community underneath the surface. It’s there people, let’s not deny it. You go to any nudist space and you are going to run into a secret group of swingers that are “playing” in secret.
They play this way because sex and nudism shouldn’t mix in the same public space. So yay!!!! They are doing it in their private places (hotel rooms, RVs, condos) at social nudist resorts and clubs. What isn’t ok is when it spills over into the pool where I am trying to have quality time with my friends and family. Keep that stuff in the place it belongs. Enjoy your sexpositive relationships in sexpositive locations. The general public nudist location is not the place for this.
Our AFTER selves, through reading, listening to podcasts and having conversations with other sexpositive people about sexuality, has led us to believe there is great value to positive context of sexual imagery and the stories of growth.
We are also learning to enjoy our own sexuality after a lifetime of religious repression. This enjoyment spills over in our social online space. If you don’t like it, thats ok, you can choose not to follow or look. Yes, we know that that the internet and social media is strewn with entertainment porn. We want to give context to our sexuality, the real relationship, the real journey of being sexpositive and being nudist.
Not every picture is perfect.
Not every moment is epic. Sometimes it’s just regular life. Sometimes life is erotic. Most of the time it is not. However, sometimes it’s doing the dishes and sometimes doing the dishes is erotic. This is Our Story and it is for us us. We want to share the things that were not talked about in our culture growing up. However, when we share we are going to share these things while being naked.
Being sexpositive is not as dangerous as we were taught. It is not shameful and it is actually something to be celebrated.
We also are learning so much as we continue on this exploratory journey. You will be seeing our conversations on nudism and a positive light of the beauty of sex between one, two, or more consenting adults. See our story of how we left the church and started sharing on MakeLoveNotPorn.
Here is a little visual preview of what the rest of this site’s galleries have to offer.
