Our sexual relationship journey has been nothing short of remarkable, but it also has been tough. Looking back at our blogs this past month, we’re reminded of the incredible transformation we’ve undergone in our sex-ploration. It feels like a lifetime ago since we first embarked on this path. We transitioned from a conservative Christian upbringing to embracing nudism, exploring atheism, and ultimately embracing a sex-positive mindset.
The journey has not always been easy and is still not easy.
We faced numerous challenges along the way, including battles with depression and the struggle to break free from societal norms and expectation. With each step forward, we discovered newfound joy and liberation.
We’ve learned to embrace our authentic selves- celebrating our bodies and desires without shame or guilt. Our journey has been a constant exploration of pleasure, intimacy, and self-discovery. New factors are entering into our lives now as we age, our bodies change, and our social relationships change.
We sometimes find ourselves at an impass on who we are as a couple when it comes to our sexual relationship. Realizing that sometimes we actually don’t fit each other anymore, and that is ok. This is a very difficult realization when you have spent more than half your life with someone. It has required us to ask each other a lot of hard questions. Sometimes leading to resolutions, sometimes to impasses that we have to compromise on.
This realization has allowed us to shed the limitations imposed by our past beliefs and embrace a more fulfilling and liberated existence.
Through our blog, we’ve shared the highs and lows, the triumphs and setbacks, in the hopes of inspiring others on their own journeys of self-discovery and sexual exploration. We’re grateful for the unwavering support from our readers and the sex-positive community who have cheered us on every step of the way.
As we continue to grow and evolve on this journey, we’re excited for what lies ahead. We’re committed to exploring new boundaries, challenging societal norms, and spreading a message of self-acceptance, love, and sexual empowerment.
Let’s celebrate the journey we’ve embarked upon, honoring the path we’ve traveled and the growth we’ve achieved. Here’s to embracing our authentic selves, pursuing pleasure with passion, and continuing to inspire others to embark on their own remarkable journeys of self-discovery and sexual liberation.
Part of the liberation has been more masturbation.
When it comes to masturbation, there could always be more, right? With us, growing up in our religious culture, it was taught as a dirty and shameful act. We are working on slowly getting through this. Some of the beauty of this exploration has been with Lynn and her recordings of self pleasure and self love with MakeLoveNotPorn. You can watch one of her beautiful sessions right here. Lynn’s self pleasure.
All sex isn’t penetrative sex of course and we have found that even masturbating together is a wonderful thing. We haven’t recorded that yet for social sharing, but it’s probably going to happen pretty soon. In the meantime, you can enjoy this part of our sexual relationship journey blog that we posted MLNP Summer POV.
To flirt is in our future.
A basic thing that we are trying to re-learn (and this may seem so simple!) is how to flirt with each other again, allowing space for sexual attraction to grow. I am not talking about foreplay, which can lead to a sexual encounter, but what I am talking about is actual flirting. Finding those little things that spark a heart beat, or a feeling of excitement with your long term partner. It’s so easy to find flirts that do that in other relationships, even casual ones, but why is it so hard to cultivate that in a long term one?
This question is one we will for sure be working on in our minds and with our bodies. It really is part of what I believe to be a healthy sexual relationship and brings life to longterm comfortable relationships. In the meantime, here are a couple freebees from our flirting over the weekend.
Expanding into OnlyFans
Yes, we are going the way of OnlyFans. As twitter no longer exists as what it once was, we feel like OF offers a way for our followers to still be connected to us. It is also going to allow us to post the videos that we post here to be purchased A la carte without a subscription or long term monetary commitment. Sometimes you just want a quick AndreLynn fix.
